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Dear You,

I know you’ve been so hard on yourself, seeking love—someone who could understand you. Whether in friendships, romantic relationships, or a longing for deep connection, I know how deep you are, dear. It makes perfect sense that this life’s journey is about embracing and accepting who you truly are. Accepting the truth and not denying your most authentic self is the path to being loved. Rumi was right: “What you seek is seeking you.”

In your deepest moments of self-discovery, know that who you are is the most valuable thing you possess. The relationship with yourself is the most powerful foundation for all your external relationships. Embrace this and allow yourself to be vulnerable with your emotions, for within them lie the messages of the spirit within you.

Your heart has been broken through years of longing to be loved and appreciated. But now, with newfound awareness of who you are, you are free from egoic and eccentric behaviors. Now you see, embrace, and accept yourself through the eyes of love. You’ve been in battle, and now you can surrender to what is and let life unfold as it may. No attachments—only clarity about what you truly desire: contentment, stillness, and tranquility.

To all the boys you’ve been attached to: thank you, from the deepest part of your heart, for allowing you to express your rigidity and helping you understand yourself more deeply. It’s been a roller-coaster ride of emotions—tense, exhilarating, and life-affirming. Now you’ve learned to be aware and accept yourself for who you are: vulnerable, lovable, carefree, genuine, and playful.

You now understand yourself deeply, and you are grateful for your life. You value your inner peace and can see clearly. You’ve freed yourself, and you should be proud of the little improvements you’ve made. It may take time to fully digest your awareness, but even delayed responses bring profound understanding. Appreciate your mind for processing situations and circumstances that contribute positively to your experience.

Now you can finally breathe and embrace your beauty. You can express love and gratitude to the world because you recognize the magic within you—magic that attracts endless possibilities that you deserve. You are beyond grateful, and you will never stop appreciating life. You are not a victim of this world; you are a blessing.

How does it get any better than this? What else is possible beyond this great awakening? Knowing yourself, reading your emotions, and guarding your heart is key. You now understand the wisdom of the Bible’s advice to safeguard your heart. Inner peace is the most valuable thing because it reflects how much you love and respect yourself. Setting healthy boundaries in love protects you and keeps you safe. Awareness and love guide us to safety, and that is true everlasting life.

You are here to fully live and be lived—carefree, with child-like innocence, authenticity, care, nurturing, happiness, genuineness, and love.

My dear Zade, you are always lovable, just as you are. Always. You are another version of me. Now you can hear me clearly, and you’ve come so far. I am incredibly proud of you. I love you always, and you can open your heart now. You are safe and secure. Enjoy the little things around you. You are surrounded by abundant friendships, love, resources, wisdom, adventures, discoveries, and infinite possibilities of the highest intelligence.

This serves as a lesson and a recognition of how far you’ve come. I congratulate you. Now, you may proceed to your next journey: loving yourself.

With deep appreciation and love,

I love you from the bottom of my heart.

Enjoy your peace and beyond.

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