In the Evenings

Pause for a While

Being with your own company might be a challenge if you seek a companion. What is your intention? Why did you choose singleness?

Do you enjoy your time alone? Spending time alone completely is a beautiful thing. Maybe I’ve already reached this level now. I feel the longing has faded. I'm not in a hurry for a partner in life. I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years, and then, in the middle of our 10th year, I decided to end it for many reasons. Our relationship had its ups and downs—on and off, sweet and bitter. We were like best friends. We grew together in a phase where both our personalities molded. We both liked a lot of the same things, and we really connected well, but love was not enough. I have ambitions. I can't stop them. They really call me, and I crave something more. So, I did leave my beloved husband for selfish reasons. We both cheated and ruined our relationship. Karma did its work through our experience. Love is always there. I still love him from the heart. The feeling is there, but there is a force inside me.

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There is a difference between the words "flow" and "savor." Flow is being in the moment, drifting and continuously gliding with the streams of life, wherever they lead you. Whereas savor is when you pause in the journey to enjoy the moment. You savor life with all your human senses. You savor the moment in life, accepting that it should be and will lead you where you're meant to go. And what do you bring with you on this journey? You bring love—that’s what you are made of. It’s your essence. To express who you are, to be what you truly are.

Take some time to pause, reflect, and improve your reasoning. Stand by your convictions, because you are in a human form, and you have polarity. Make wise use of your logical mind as part of this experience, and at all costs, protect your peace. You love, but you are wise. You trust, but you never let yourself be deceived or fooled.

Be wise, my beloved.

You have this within you.

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Until then,

Love,
Your spirit